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For a bride and groom, choosing the bridal party can become a difficult task to do. It’s not about knowing who your friends are, that comes easy,  but rather trying to narrow it down that can be the hard part. As tradition stands, it is most common to also choose a best man or maid of honor that will stand nearest to the bride and groom and take on the majority of the wedding day responsibilities.

I’m sure there are many friends to choose from… sisters, high school friends, college roommates, or even coworkers. Considering all of your options, who should your maid of honor be?

Well, let me tell you…

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Someone who comes to mind instantly…

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Someone you can have a good laugh with…

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Someone who knows your love story… and history…

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Someone who keeps you relaxed…

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Someone you can have fun with…

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Someone who is organized and can take on the planning responsibilities of bridal events…

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Someone that has been by your side throughout life that you would also want by your side on your wedding day…

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Someone you can also be serious with and share stuff with…

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Someone who is your light or guidance…

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Someone who can enjoy sweets and desserts with you… (well, in my case) 😉

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It is truly special to have a best friend by your side for that special day. Of course, there are many other reasons to choose your Maid of Honor aside from if they like sugar or not. However you decide to choose, your maid of honor will be the one you turn to throughout the planning and the one you will appreciate on your wedding day.